Don't Be Downed By Bullies In Your Job
Though getting along with some people seem impossible may their be bullies or your co-workers once you get to know about them it may not be mission impossible any more.
Unless you just swallow your pride and maintain your cool it may be impossible to interact with them normally. But simply not facing the issue or leaving the issue is not the only way out.
Just brace yourself or smile back at them. These are some of the different ways people have been taught in dealing with such people. However, when you beam at them you create a more positive angle. And this is what is preferred.
It may feel contrary to what common sense dictates but smiling may be an easy way to start the interaction. Give the person an honest smile not just showing your teeth like a predator. Think about what part of them you like while smiling and they could end up smiling back.
You will feel as if you just did the unthinkable but then remember they are not monster and you may be very surprised by what you find out about them when you dig deeper.
Try to do something that no one or not many have done by trying to get along with such people .become the exception to the rule "it is easy to dislike peter because he is arrogant and abrasive" try liking him.
Know that he just trying to deal with a little more than he can handle. He is new in this place and the people make him to be nervous. And he is arrogant because he feels insecure.
A person become more than a caricature to you when you get to understand when the cause a of his or her behaviors they turn and become persons with real concerns .you cannot hate a person once you get to know them for you only hate those who you do not have a clue where they are coming from. But it only takes you a little time, patience and heart to get to know them and see beyond the surface or what they throw at you.
Unless you just swallow your pride and maintain your cool it may be impossible to interact with them normally. But simply not facing the issue or leaving the issue is not the only way out.
Just brace yourself or smile back at them. These are some of the different ways people have been taught in dealing with such people. However, when you beam at them you create a more positive angle. And this is what is preferred.
It may feel contrary to what common sense dictates but smiling may be an easy way to start the interaction. Give the person an honest smile not just showing your teeth like a predator. Think about what part of them you like while smiling and they could end up smiling back.
You will feel as if you just did the unthinkable but then remember they are not monster and you may be very surprised by what you find out about them when you dig deeper.
Try to do something that no one or not many have done by trying to get along with such people .become the exception to the rule "it is easy to dislike peter because he is arrogant and abrasive" try liking him.
Know that he just trying to deal with a little more than he can handle. He is new in this place and the people make him to be nervous. And he is arrogant because he feels insecure.
A person become more than a caricature to you when you get to understand when the cause a of his or her behaviors they turn and become persons with real concerns .you cannot hate a person once you get to know them for you only hate those who you do not have a clue where they are coming from. But it only takes you a little time, patience and heart to get to know them and see beyond the surface or what they throw at you.
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